After getting engaged to the one you like, the next beautiful thing in the world is dating for any young girl. It’s time to celebrate romance, sing the love duets, dine out and hang out at cool places. And the heaven seems within a hailing distance for you.  Though there are no fixed rules for dating (even if there are, would you like to follow?), I would like to tell you some dos and don’ts for dating. The piece of writing intends to set up excellent rapport with your would-be spouse.

A ride can be risky

You are meeting the guy for the first time and therefore, a long-drive is not safe. You are not familiar with his nature and character. Better play safe than be sorry after any disgusting incidents. Try to convince him to sit on a garden bench or a restaurant.  The rendezvous should not be too over-crowded to spoil your meeting and should not be too desolate to rouse him to do some objectionable. Remember, there’s many a slip ‘twixt cup and lip.

Man’s privilege

If you are at restaurant or any other food zone, allow him to pay the damage; after all, it’s man’s privilege. This will also decide how much he can shell out after you. This does not mean that your purse should be empty. Keep some bucks for any kind of emergency.

Be early birds

It’s good to be at the meeting point at lest 10 minutes before the fixed time. It creates a good impression of yours and he understands the value of time in the next date. Moreover, you get the comfortable place to sit.

Ring him up if you are late

If you think you can’t reach the place on time, it’s advisable for you to talk to him. Give him the right reason. Making somebody wait is rude.

Topics to talk on

Perhaps the most embarrassing situation Indian girls face is what to talk. Start with weather or the place itself, and gradually you can switch to romance. Never talk on religion, politics, sex, money, business etc. This can easily lead you to arguments on your very first date.

Go alone

Any third person may play a spoilsport. Never take your friend with you; why give him a chance to stare at your friend . And if he has been accompanied by his friend, softly say no to him.

Don’t forget the gift

First date without a gift can be as dull as ditchwater. Give him a good wallet or something that is suitable for men. If your purse allows, you can also buy a wristwatch or anything precious for him. Your gift should express your true emotions to him.

That’s all. Now get ready to enjoy the first date with your fiancé. Remember, that these points are quite general in nature; there may be some situations which are not discussed in this article, and then you may have to show your tact to handle the situation with care. The best is to consult any expert before you go for a date. I wish you good luck.

Tips for Guys

Jayesh